Although my name is on this page, it was in fact mostly written by the late Dennis Ferrman. Dennis died in August of 2016. He was 74 years old. I've put together some notes about Dennis here.
Nicky Knoff and her husband
James Bryan in 2009, and in the 1980s.
My
yoga guru, Nicky
Knoff, is now 76. She claims that she may not, in her
words “fall off the perch” until she is 120. She
has a wonderful saying, “Not diamonds, no fur
coats, supplements!” Naturally some people will
say that a good plant-based diet is all one needs.
Others of us agree with Nicky. Many of us can
definitely feel the difference that supplements
make even if we can't always pinpoint what does
what.
I've had a few
health gurus. Joan Baez came to my school when I was
a kid and told us to read Louis Fisher's
Life of Mahatma Gandhi. I did and became a
vegetarian. Later, one of my vegetarian guru
friends, Tavi,
had a stroke and died, probably from all of the
skimmed-milk powder he ate. One of my other health
gurus who was with me 35 years ago in the Peace
Corps in Tonga, met up with me again a couple years
ago at Ngawha
Springs, New Zealand, site of some of the most
therapeutic hot springs on earth. (If you're sick,
check them out.) Anyway, he had just read The China
Study and urged me to have a look. It makes a
very convincing case for a plant-based diet. I read
it and stopped milk products. Later I met a patient
of Bill Clinton's health guru and decided to take
the vegan diet one step further and adopt more of a
protect-your-heart diet giving up most nuts, oil,
and fruit juices. That was good news in that I then
lost the 5 pounds I'd been trying to lose for more
than 10 years. I also felt physically stronger and
mentally more alert than I had in years.
Here are my suggestions:
Adopt a plant-based diet. If
it's good enough for Bill Clinton, it's good enough
for you. Lose weight, feel good, and be in less
pain. Some people say that you won't get Alzheimer's
and you certainly won't be contributing to All
Gore's most inconvenient inconvenient truth, that
was so inconvenient he refused to touch on it in his
movie: the immense damage that the milk and meat
industries do to the planet. For a convincing case
to go plant-based read The
China Study by Dr. T. Colin Campbell and his
son. (But Al Gore, like Bill Clinton, became vegan
thereby losing 50 pounds.)
For a quick
introduction to The China Study have a
look at the trailer to the documentary Forks
Over Knives where Dr. Campbell suggests that
"most, if not all, of the degenerative diseases that
afflict us can be controlled, or even reversed, by
rejecting our present menu of animal-based and
processed foods." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZPb1rUhl8TU
I now take at least 50 mg. a day. Increased age
and a vegetarian diet create a greater need for
this supplement. And taking statin drugs demands
even more.
TAKE FLAX OIL.
You can think of this as vegetarian fish oil. As
with everything, not everyone is sure that it does
everything that other people say it does. But it
appears to help with high cholesterol, heart
disease, and the functions of the brain. It is a
rich source of essential fatty acids—the omega's 3
and 6. Flaxseed oil and linseed oil are the same
and flax has been cultivated since Egyptian times.
A few times I've broken open my flax seed capsules
and used the oil to polish wood or lubricate
squeaky doors. If things go well, I take one after
each meal. You can find flax oil everywhere. The
high lignan type is better, and grinding your own
seeds fresh with a small coffee bean grinder at
each meal is the best ($14 grinder at Amazon).
Somewhat
more expensive, but an even better source of
omega-3 are chia seeds. Soak them a couple of
minutes in juice, tea, etc. Once they expand, they
are ready to eat. If you take a tablespoon of chia
seeds a day, you can skip the flax oil. Chia seeds
have a history, which you can read below.
In Mayan,
the word "Chia" means strength,
and it is interesting that these
ancient people recognized the
invigorating qualities of the Chia
Seed. Chiapas, the Mexican state,
is named after this member of the
mint family – Chiapas means "River
of Chia". After the Aztecs had
conquered most of what is now
Mexico, they used their
agricultural practices to
cultivate Chia on a large scale.
As their capital, Tenochtitlan,
was located on very marshy ground,
the Aztecs actually used this to
their advantage. They would weave
mats from tree bark, float these
platforms on the water, cover the
mats with soil, and then plant
them with Chia, among other crops.
It was an ingenious system that
made use of an otherwise difficult
agricultural site. As the Aztecs
had an aggressive, expansive
culture, they often went on
missions of conquest to
neighboring areas. They were
already well acquainted with the
high energy value of Chia Seeds,
and their warriors carried these
with them on their journeys. After
a tribe had been conquered, the
Aztecs would demand Chia Seeds as
part of the tribute that would be
paid to them.
TAKE Vitamin B12.
If you don't eat meat, you're out of luck for this
guy and if you don't get enough, it's serious.
Don't believe me? Read up on it. http://www.veganhealth.org/articles/everyvegan
.
Methylcobalamin
is a better form of B12 than cyanocobalamin. Take
a 1000 mcg pill once or twice a week and that
should be adequate.
Consider taking
Resveratrol. You can buy it cheaply in
the local drug store, but it seems a micronized
version of resveratrol at lower doses crosses into
cells more effectively and is safe even at
mega-doses, unlike standard resveratrol. The brand
Longevinex is the most researched form of
resveratrol and that research is showing benefits
in macular degeneration, protecting the heart,
countering cancer, brain function, etc., with more
research being published all the time. Longevinex
Advantage has added ingredients that help protect
the skin and keep it looking younger. A friend
with chronic skin cancers says this has improved
his skin health.
Here
is a recent newsletter with research archives
included:
Longevinex isn't cheap, http://www.longevinex.com/
but for a dollar a day it gives positive results
with no side-effects. One of the positive
results is reversal of blindness from macular
degeneration. Here is Dr. Stuart Richer,
O.D., PhD, giving details. http://eyedoctorricher.com/
The Longevinex
company has developed an allicin supplement from
garlic that will not be destroyed by stomach acid
as is typical of most allicin. It gives no body
odor. And allicin has many health benefits besides
longevity including being anti-cancer. Garlizyme
at about 30 cents a capsule is less than one-third
the cost of Longevinex.
Consider taking
an Enzyme Formula. Enzymes help you
digest food and help get the most bang for your
buck from food. Raw foods are full of them, but
often we don't get enough. They are depleted in
refined foods. As we get older our bodies cannot
make them as easily, which adds to our need to
take them as a supplement.
I take the ones
sold by Baseline
Nutritionals whose products are designed by
a health guru, Jon Barron. He calls his brand
"pHi-Zymes." He writes that these stimulate our
immune systems to destroy and clean out such
things as inflammation, bacteria, viruses, fungi,
chemical toxins, and dying cells that can become
cancerous -- from a few to over a thousand a day.
He also
has a free bi-monthly newsletter you can receive
from his website: http://www.jonbarron.org/
On that page is a search box where if you search
for ailments, medicines, supplements, organs,
glands, etc., and you can often find in-depth
articles examining these topics. For example, put
"borage oil" into the Search and see what the GLA
it contains does for you.
Consider taking a
Probiotic supplement. If you eat yogurt
regularly, you're set with this one. If you are on
the plant-based-diet bandwagon, you can consider a
supplement. In Thailand and some other countries
there is a snake-oil company called Yakult that
has a fleet of people on motorcycles who will
deliver their probiotic formula to your door. I
prefer a non-dairy supplement. The Wikipedia makes
a convincing
case for probiotics. You can get them here: http://www.baselinenutritionals.com/products/probiotics.php
and lots of other places.
If you take the
Longevinex Advantage version of resveratol, you're
set on vitamin D.
Consider taking
Wheatgrass. Cruising the Internet, I
read about an American Yogi who advised his
students not to drink coffee and to take wheat
grass. Wheat grass isn't expensive, is recommended
by all kinds of people, and doesn't taste bad. So
I bought a some from the local health food store.
A week or two later a muscle injury in my calf
that had been bothering me for two years cleared
up. In the USA I buy
this kind.
Consider taking
apple cider vinegar and honey. Mix them
one-to-one and take one or more big spoonfuls a
day. Some people hate vinegar and others don't
like honey. I have always liked apple-cider
vinegar and honey, which was introduced to me by a
black South African woman who told me that it was
traditional medicine in her family. Later I
learned that New Englanders make the same claim.
If you Google it, you'll be amazed. Here's one
site on it. When I was a kid honey was
honey. Now a lot of honey has pollutants and
additives. Go for the natural stuff.
Sodium bicarbonate, also called
baking soda, has interesting potential for
health, though no profit for pharmaceutical
companies, by countering colds and flu, and
even cancer. Here is a historical
perspective on this claim during the flu
epidemic of 1918.
You might even mix the baking
soda with apple cider vinegar and honey or
stevia in green tea, but put it in a large mug
or bowl since it will bubble up. Take 2
tbsp ACV and 1/2 tsp baking soda with a little
sweetener in the tea. You get multiple
benefits taking it this way.
Consider
including turmeric in your diet. It is
a natural anti-inflammatory.
From an article in the New York Times, "A study
published in The Journal of Alternative and
Complementary Medicine in 2009 compared the active
ingredient in turmeric, curcumin, with ibuprofen
for pain relief in 107 people with knee
osteoarthritis. The curcumin eased
pain and improved function about as well as
the ibuprofen." The NYT article also states:
While many people may
encounter turmeric only in curry dishes
and South Asian restaurants, Dr. Santos
advises her patients to find it in health
food stores in pill or capsule form. She
recommends a dose of 1,000 milligrams a
day. The benefit of buying it in a bottle,
she said, is that it’s usually combined
with a compound called piperine, which
aids absorption.
“In India, whenever they
use turmeric they usually have pepper in
the meal,” said Dr. Santos. “Piperine is a
pepper. It helps the turmeric get absorbed
so that it goes into your bloodstream
versus staying
in your gut.”
Dr. Santos said she
recently suggested to her father that he
try turmeric after an operation on his
hip. He was undergoing rehab and was
experiencing pain and stomach issues,
another area in which the use of turmeric
has been studied.
“He was skeptical,” she
said. “But he called me up a few days
later and said he was pain-free.”
If you Google "turmeric and
black pepper" you'll find much more.
Consider
drinking green or white tea with stevia.
White tea has even more antioxidants than green
tea, with less caffeine. Stevia is a natural
sweetener with no sugar or calories to spike blood
sugar. It is very sweet, but some don't like its
taste. You can buy Stevia from, among other places, Walmart.
Consider taking a
vitamin pill. Yes, after everything
else, the old vitamin pill still covers some
bases. But take a food-based supplement if you can. Take chemical-vitamin-based
pills only occasionally, when you are feeling
depleted, fatigued, or stressed.
More
things to do for a Long Life
If
you are dealing with aches, pains, sports
injuries, physical stresses, and strains, consider
realigning your body through simple, basic
exercises as found in the book Pain
Free by Pete Egoscue.
Pete was wounded
in Vietnam and after six months in the hospital he
still had physical problems that doctors said
would never go away. Pete proved them wrong by
going to physical therapists, yoga teachers,
chiropractors, and other such health practitioners
and found that nature can indeed heal complex
physical problems if given a chance with proper
body alignment. It does not require sophisticated
yoga exercises to benefit from these exercises. I
heard of an 80-year-old with Parkinson's Disease
who could not hold his head up straight. After
trying these exercises for a few days, he regained
control of his head and posture.
And for those of
you who have that modern lifestyle in front of
your computer, exercises to correct chronic
posture problems can be found in Pete's book:
Pain Free at Your PC.
From
another book comes the inspiration for yours
truly to demonstrate the Downward-Facing Dog
Pose with a rope.. This is good for scoliosis and
compressed discs/disks.
If
you have more serious chronic bodily aches and
pains, you might want to consider acupotomy,
a distant cousin of acupuncture. Unfortunately, I
don't know of any acupotomy doctors in the US even
though acupotomy is showing up in NIH research.
China is training many acupotomists every year.
In Adelaide,
Australia Dr. Steven Woo practices acupotomy and
acupuncture. At http://www.truelocal.com.au/business/og-pain-clinic/klemzig
You can read amazing stories that his patients
have written about the treatment he has given
them.
There is an
acupotomy doctor working in Mexico City. If you
write, I can send information about him.
Here is an hour of
programs on acupotomy broken into four segments,
each of which is about 14 1/2 minutes long. It is
set in Chengdu, China. This link is to Part 1. One
can click on the other parts listed on the right.
People from many parts of the world are going
there for treatment. http://old.bon.tv/9/56/1690-mysterious-acupotomy-part-1.shtml#.U9ljsPldXLc
Hydro-therapy.
Always finish a hot shower with a cold-water rinse
and experience the benefits of the lost art of
hydrotherapy. The cold water will tone your
muscles, wake up your brain, give you healthy
skin, and help you tolerate cold weather better.
If you have the time, spend two weeks in the best
mineral springs in the world. For more details of
the hot springs read http://thomasriddle.net/ngawha/
. When I was at the hot springs, in the morning
the temperature would be near freezing. After a
few days, when I had some confidence, I would
finish an hour in the hot springs by rinsing off
in a near-freezing shower. I found that with the
shower, after I got dressed, I felt warmer than
when I skipped the shower. I also felt like I
could wrestle an alligator. Here is more:
Hot and Cold
Hydrotherapy - Showers
One's circulation can
be given a tremendous boost by taking
a shower and alternating the flow of
water from hot to cold, back and forth
7 times in a row. The result is
invigorating and extremely healthful.
This is how to do it:
1.
Make sure that the water used does not
contain chlorine, fluoride or other
highly toxic chemicals commonly used
in public water supplies. It is
counter-productive to greatly increase
one's circulation and at the same time
drive in a large dose of toxic
chemicals. If you cannot readily
filter these chemicals out of the
water before it comes into your home,
install a shower head filter that is
truly effective in this regard. We
know of one sold at Home Depot for
about $30 that uses replaceable carbon
cartridges.
2. Get
completely wet with a temperature of
water that is comfortable.
3.
Slowly increase the temperature up to
the point that you can barely stand
it. Quickly expose all the parts of
the body to this hotter water
including the top of your head and
your face.
4. Now
turn the water temperature down to the
coldest tolerable setting. No matter
how cold the water is, at its coldest,
it cannot harm you in any way. The
only thing stopping you from going to
the coldest setting is your ability to
confront the experience. Make sure all
parts of your body get this cold water
exposure.
5.
Next turn the water to hot again but
make it a little hotter than you had
it before. Again, get each part of
your body good and hot before
reversing the temperature to the
coldest setting.
6.
Repeat the procedure seven times -
seven times hot, seven times cold.
Always begin with hot and end off with
cold. Make the temperatures as hot and
as cold as you can tolerate.
Why Hot and
Cold Therapy Works
When the body is
subjected to cold external
temperatures, the flow of circulation
is directed inward toward the internal
organs. As the outside temperature
gets hot, the flow of circulation goes
outward toward the skin. Alternating
hot and cold makes the circulation
move in and out like an accordion.
This has the effect of unblocking
stuck flows, increasing the rate of
detoxification and moving nutrients
more readily to various parts of the
body.
Folks can use hot and
cold showers to "get into gear" in the
morning or, ironically, use it at the
end of the night to get an unusually
restful night's sleep.
Hot and cold showers can be taken 2 or
3 times a day as a therapeutic measure
to enhance the effectiveness of a
natural health repair program. These
showers can be a godsend in that they
are inexpensive, convenient, never
cause any harm and always make you
feel better. And if you find you wake
up in the morning feeling blah, or if
during the day you feel down or
depressed, a couple of rounds of hot
and cold water in the shower are a
quick, effective way to change your
body chemistry and perk you up. Give
this routine a try and see!
But for
those of you with limited time before
you rush off to work, consider this
abbreviated version that still gives
great benefits: Take your usual warm
shower followed by a pleasantly cool
shower. Then go back to a hot water
shower followed by a cold, but not
unpleasant, final rinse. Experiment a
little and see what works for you.
* * *
Consider Meditation.
As we all know, all kinds of studies were done with
the Maharishi Yogi's Transcendental Meditation and
it was found to be a big help. As a former TM'er, I
can say that after a while, it's not enough. I'm not
in contact with a single long-term TM'er, so I can't
say more about it. Anyway, to give you some idea of
what you can expect from Buddhist meditation
(vipassana), here are some quotes from a recent New
York Times article:
Those who
meditated for about 30 minutes a day for eight
weeks had measurable changes in gray-matter
density in parts of the brain associated with
memory, sense of self, empathy and stress. . . .
M.R.I. brain scans taken before and after the
participants meditation regimen found increased
gray matter in the hippocampus, an area
important for learning and memory. The images
also showed a reduction of gray matter in the
amygdala, a region connected to anxiety and
stress. A control group that did not practice
meditation showed no such changes. . . . a 2009
study suggests that meditation may reduce blood
pressure in patients with coronary heart
disease. And a 2007 study found that meditators
have longer attention spans....a 2008 study
found that when meditators heard the sounds of
people suffering, they had stronger activation
levels in their temporal parietal junctures, a
part of the brain tied to empathy, than people
who did not meditate."
I find that
meditation, especially when I do it in periods of
ten days or longer can help press the forgiveness
button and the "erase unhappy endings" switch. All
kinds of other stuff can happen as well. I'm
always amazed to meet people who haven't the
slightest intention of ever forgiving anyone and
who love their countless unhappy endings.
Christians often find that meditation beings them
closer to the teachings of Christ.
Here is a muscle relaxation
technique that quickly and directly
helps to relax the mind and body.
It requires no training, just
follow the instructions on the video.
The resulting better state of mind
not only makes one more relaxed and
happier, it improves one's biochemistry
which helps one's health.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Meditation for 10:32 minutes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYsuvRNZfxE
You might try it after a period of
stress by just sitting in a chair and
playing the video. Another time
would be right before bedtime to relax
and enable you to have better sleep.
For the past 35 years years I've tried
all kinds of meditation timers from wind-up
watches to the same time piece the astronauts
carried. Recently I've been using my MP3 player as
my timer. You can see the timers at http://thomasriddle.net/timers
Here's something
else you can try to press the happiness button:
gratitude. If you already have enough happiness,
jump to the next topic.
Recent
studies have concluded that the expression
of gratitude can have profound and
positive effects on our health, our moods
and even the survival of our marriages.
As Drs.
Blaire and Rita Justice reported for the
University of Texas Health Science Center,
"a growing body of research shows that
gratitude is truly amazing in its physical
and psychosocial benefits."
In one study
on gratitude, conducted by Robert A.
Emmons, Ph.D., at the University of
California at Davis and his colleague Mike
McCullough at the University of Miami,
randomly assigned participants were given
one of three tasks. Each week,
participants kept a short journal. One
group briefly described five things they
were grateful for that had occurred in the
past week, another five recorded daily
hassles from the previous week that
displeased them, and the neutral group was
asked to list five events or circumstances
that affected them, but they were not told
whether to focus on the positive or on the
negative. Ten weeks later, participants in
the gratitude group felt better about
their lives as a whole and were a full 25
percent happier than the hassled group.
They reported fewer health complaints, and
exercised an average of 1.5 hours more.
In a later
study by Emmons, people were asked to
write every day about things for which
they were grateful. Not surprisingly, this
daily practice led to greater increases in
gratitude than did the weekly journaling
in the first study. But the results showed
another benefit: Participants in the
gratitude group also reported offering
others more emotional support or help with
a personal problem, indicating that the
gratitude exercise increased their
goodwill towards others, or more
tehnically, their "pro-social" motivation.
Another study
on gratitude was conducted with adults
having congenital and adult-onset
neuromuscular disorders (NMDs), with the
majority having post-polio syndrome (PPS).
Compared to those who were not jotting
down their blessings nightly, participants
in the gratitude group reported more hours
of sleep each night, and feeling more
refreshed upon awakening. The gratitude
group also reported more satisfaction with
their lives as a whole, felt more optimism
about the upcoming week, and felt
considerably more connected with others
than did participants in the control
group.
Perhaps most
tellingly, the positive changes were
markedly noticeable to others. According
to the researchers, "Spouses of the
participants in the gratitude (group)
reported that the participants appeared to
have higher subjective well-being than did
the spouses of the participants in the
control (group)."
There's an
old saying that if you've forgotten the
language of gratitude, you'll never be on
speaking terms with happiness. It turns
out this isn't just a fluffy idea. Several
studies have shown depression to be
inversely correlated to gratitude. It
seems that the more grateful a person is,
the less depressed they are. Philip
Watkins, a clinical psychologist at
Eastern Washington University, found that
clinically depressed individuals showed
significantly lower gratitude (nearly 50
percent less) than non-depressed controls.
Dr. John
Gottman at the University of Washington
has been researching marriages for two
decades. The conclusion of all that
research, he states, is that unless a
couple is able to maintain a high ratio of
positive to negative encounters (5:1 or
greater), it is likely the marriage will
end.
With 90
percent accuracy, Gottman says he can
predict, often after only three minutes of
observation, which marriages are likely to
flourish and which are likely to flounder.
The formula is that for every negative
expression (a complaint, frown, put-down,
expression of anger) there needs to be
about five positive ones (smiles,
compliments, laughter, expressions of
appreciation and gratitude).
Apparently,
positive vibes aren't just for hippies. If
you want in on the fun, here are some
simple things you can do to build positive
momentum toward a more happy and
fulfilling life:
1) Keep a
daily journal of three things you are
thankful for. This works well first thing
in the morning, or just before you go to
bed.
2) Make it a
practice to tell a spouse, partner or
friend something you appreciate about them
every day.
3) Look in
the mirror when you are brushing your
teeth, and think about something you have
done well recently or something you like
about yourself.
Sure this
world gives us plenty of reasons to
despair. But when we get off the fast
track to morbidity, and cultivate instead
an attitude of gratitude, things don't
just look better -- they actually get
better. Thankfulness feels good, it's good
for you and it's a blessing for the people
around you, too. It's such a win-win-win
that I'd say we have cause for gratitude.
Consider Yoga,
jogging, weights, bicycling, aerobics, tai chi,
jazzercise, etc. People can talk
forever about what is the best exercise routine.
The bottom line though is actually doing it. If I
miss my yoga routine two days in a row, I feel it.
Consider
getting more Sleep. For many years I
was strongly influenced by the Burmese and Thai
forest tradition that views sleep as an impediment
to good meditation practice. For years and years I
slept no more than 6 hours a night. During all of
that time, I don't recall ever staying awake
during yoganidra, the deep relaxation
done after a yoga workout and I was always
surprised that some people stayed awake during it.
I thought it was natural to sleep. Recently
though, I've come to understand that lying down
and not being able to ever stay awake is a sign of
deep exhaustion. A teacher that I respect told me
that one should be able to recline and watch one's
breathing for 45 minutes.
If you miss your sleep or
need extra sleep, consider napping for
20 to 30 minutes. Napping Tips: 7
Expert Strategies For Maximizing Your
Naptime.
Consider organic foods.
For those of you who can't afford or can't easily
get organic foods, you might want to buy those
organic foods that are the most polluted by
pesticides. Each year the Environmental
Working Group (EWG) evaluates fruits and
vegetables to determine their levels of pesticides
and publishes the 12 worst, called The Dirty
Dozen, and they also give the Clean 15. For
example, in 2011 the three worst of The Dirty
Dozen were Apples, Celery, and Strawberries, while
the best of the Clean 15 were Onions, Sweet Corn,
and Pineapples.
One should also remember that besides avoiding
pesticides, organic foods have much higher levels
of nutrients because the soil is not depleted and
need chemical fertilizers to grow the crops.
Consider wearing the
Q-link Pendant. The makers of the
Q-link claim that it can can balance your
"bio-field." Here is some research on how Q-Link
can counter the EMF forces we are surrounded by in
using computers and other electrical devices.
My experience is
this: I paid $100 for it, put it on, and two weeks
later found that I was drinking less coffee, and
feeling more alert, especially in the late
afternoons which were typically the most
low-energy period of the day for me. About a month
after I started wearing the Q-link I joined
intensive four-hour, with one 15-minute break,
Spanish language classes. For the entire six weeks
I never drank a single cup of coffee during class
time and my concentration remained excellent. I
felt that my concentration was better than it had
ever been in my life. After those classes ended I
stayed up for a few days while traveling from
Mexico to Houston, to New York, to Tokyo and
finally Bangkok. I seriously wore myself out. Now,
two months later, for a lot of reasons, including
two months of travel in India, I feel that my
energy is still not back to normal. Later, I'll
put the Q-link back on and see what happens. It
comes with a 90-day money back guarantee. About 2%
of the people who order it, send it back.
Another device
for EMF is the Shieldite pendant for about $35.
Different approach to same EMF problem.
http://iyashisource.com/shieldite
And, of course,
maintain a well-balanced diet. Avoid excess sugar
and refined foods. Consider high-grade proteins
from South America such as quinoa and kiwicha,
also known as amaranth.
I'm not a doctor,
a chemist, or a salesman. I'm just a guy who was
asked by a few friends how he keeps going and this
is my response. I hope it helps.